Saturday, June 9, 2012

TIPS ON RESOLVING CONFLICTS BETWEEN YOUR KIDS WITHOUT BEING SENTIMENT.

Another special skill of parenting is the ability to 'resolve conflicts between your children/kids'. Resolving conflicts between your kids involves little process which are: * Know the cause of the fight. Knowing the root of a fight will help you on how to place your judgements, knowing the cause of a fight will help you on not being sentimental or partial, a good parent will exhibit this behaviour to show the kids on the need to be honest and impartial in their lives judgement. * Decide who is at fault. As a parent, with the little stories you have heard from your yelling and angry kids, it is now your turn to decide who should be acquitted or who should be convicted, placing your judgements right will calm your children/ kids down. P.S: Don't deliver a partial judgement so as to not start a grudge you won't be able to finish as this as sent some parents to their early graves. * Pet the convicted kid. This is the last tip on this topic, petting the convicted one will show you are a caring parent, this will further enhance the security of your kid because you will be in your kid's mind as a caring, impartial and an upright parent. Guiding your kid in this difficult times is as easy as these if the steps are followed.

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